Emotional Letter from Mother to Unborn Baby

My dear baby;

It feels very different to feel you and imagine you looking into your eyes, even if it’s your presence…

Who knows how you will be surprised and cry when you open your eyes in a warm mother’s lap of this life in accordance with the leave of Allah and his fortunes… At that moment, I’m going to look at and cry with admiration for you, who’s a part of me. You’ll ask, “How could it happen?” Even when you ask that question, you’re going to be blind, and you’re not going to think that life can make people cry even when they’re happy. Your life is the only one who’ You will learn as you mature that drinking a sip enjoying a bitter water… And you’ll find out that life isn’t as warm and reliable as the first time you took refuge.

It’s hard to predict what environments I’m going to entrust with you in. Who knows how much will be different in your future… No matter how much the world changes, there are judgments in people that don’t change: like friendship, respect-love, ambition, love… You’re going to get as much of all of this as you can. But what I want is that you’re not going to be able to do that Get out of this game with the least amount of damage. You’re going to be in the middle of a war, and, you know, you can’t get out of the war unscathed. Your emotions will be hurt, your shoulders will collapse, your hair will contract, but if you see little damage that will never end the sparkle in your eyes…

In your age there will be friendship. I can’t explain what a strong bond, but if it’s weak, it’s going to be a bond. Because people never lived alone. And you’re going to want someone to be there for you. Maybe you won’t see your family as friends as we did when we were a teenager, you’ll get the love you’re looking for off the streets. But then you’ll find out that your mother and father, who gave you the blood of unrequited love. Most likely while we rest in our graves… I’m not offended, though. If you look for love elsewhere, we have some contributions to that. Forgive me if I’ve been just a mother to you and I can’t be a bad day friend. In fact, no mother leaves her child alone. They just lose in the busy pace of work and the rapid flow of life, and occasionally they lose each other. You still don’t isolate me from exclusion, love and respect because of these short breaks. If you call a friend, be friends with yourself first. Because he can’t connect with anyone who can’t make peace with him. And make a friendship with a friend you found other than yourself that you will not be him, nor should he be separated from him. If you can set this fine line, you will always maintain your respect and love for each other… Your mother is now 18, but believe me, when she didn’t get that balance, she lost a lot of friends, and when she grasped it, she conquered the heart. I mean, it’s not your advice, it’s just a bunch of experience from me…

No matter what color your hair is, no matter what color your eyes are… It doesn’t matter to me about your gender. Just have a good heart. Look around with the eyes of your heart and call with the voice of your heart… Don’t be like anyone, be different… No philosophy and logic blindly accept, be in research. Imagine what it would have been like if people always thought the same… Wouldn’t we be bored with life? Would it taste any longer?.. Be different! But most importantly, be “human”…

You’ll grow up, you’ll have love, your love, maybe not like today, but it will be… Now love would be hidden like shame, and in hearts, when it was free from being a shame, it would disappear. But you always balance love… Let your head lie in the sky, but don’t let your feet fall off the ground. Even in the middle of emotions is good because…

And if you ask me, you’re not going to love early or be late. Because everything has a time. Just know how to be patient.

I wish we were sharing the same ages. Maybe it would be easier. But don’t let me and me communicate because you’re going to evolve youth in a different environment than me. Maybe I won’t understand your surroundings and your problems, but I’m going to love you!

-Your mother